Children’s need a boundary in their lives; just as to knowing a certain room is their territory like bedroom. Boundaries provide sense of security one important thing your child needs, love and security. As a parents expect the boundaries to tested but hold them firm.
Children need boundaries and will continually push them until they fine one that holds, meaning they will keep pushing your button until it becomes explosives. If their situations get to the explosive points, you have both lost. Discipline in love, not in anger because your button has been pushed to many times. Follow up when the first boundaries is pushed, not he last one of many. Both of your lives are much happier and more peaceful.