smartparenting

HOW DO I GET MY DAUGTHER TO RESPECT ME?

goyz — Thu, 23 May 2013 08:57:20 +0000

As a parent, you may be stressed out about your daughter’s disrespectful behavior. Whether she does not follow your rules or talks back to you, it is easy to become frustrated. However, this apparent lack of respect is a natural part of growing up. As your daughter grows up, she begins to form her own values and opinions that may not coincide with yours. Understanding how to deal with disrespectful behavior can help you build a better relationship with your daughter.

Do not become upset when your daughter says something disrespectful to you. Recognize that your daughter is still growing, and may not always choose the right things to say. Even if she yells or gives you an attitude, do not take it personally.

Show respect. If you want your daughter to be respectful, you must be willing to do the same. Instead of telling her to bring you’re a drink, ask her to bring it to you. Rather than walking into her room unannounced, knock on her door. If your daughter notices you being disrespectful, she might think you are a hypocrite.

Spend time with your daughter. Take her out to lunch, help her with her homework or go on a walk with her. Spending quality time with your daughter shows her that you care about her. If she believes you love her enough to make time for her, she will appreciate and respect you.

Model a good behavior. Show kindness to those around you, and avoid losing your temper around your daughter. Help your neighbor carry her groceries inside or volunteer your time at a nonprofit organization. If your daughter notices what a kind person you are, she may respect you more.

Talk to your daughter when she disrespects you. Whether she uses disrespectful language or doesn’t follow her curfew, you must correct her immediately. If you ignore her disrespectful behavior, she will think she can get away with it. For example, you can say, “I do not appreciate it when you use that tone with me. If you continue to show me disrespect, you will be punished.”

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goyz — Thu, 23 May 2013 03:15:57 +0000

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WISHES DO COME TRUE

goyz — Tue, 21 May 2013 04:02:14 +0000

I never have imagined that the day would come that I would be able to buy a jeep car (of course that comes along with a jeep car cover) for myself at this age. Am I just lucky or the universe really conspiring to grant me one of my wishes? Now I really do believe that dreams do come true. You really have to believe, no matter how impossible it may seem, that there’s a slight chance that you might get what you want. You just have to put it out there and let the cosmic force help you get what you want. Well in my case, having my dream car.

I remember I just used to look this jeep car on the internet and on the car show that I have been into and see myself on a dreamy state. It is one of those things that I really long for just like any other girls long for diamonds. Up until now I really couldn’t pin point why I love that car. It just likes some kind of deep seated emotional or childhood issues. But I don’t want to know about it now because as much as I want to know the reason behind this entire epic dream of mine I’d rather focus on the good and positive stuff.

It is a nice feeling to get want you want no matter how long you have to wait. This is what makes life worth living for no matter how corny that may sound.

COUNT TO TEN

goyz — Tue, 21 May 2013 04:00:02 +0000

It is easy to lose your cool when you have to be “on” all the times. Single parent have no one to trade off with they they’re about to lose marble over yet another bowl of peas thrown on their floor. Do not yell, because it is not healthy for their child and you regret it afterward. Instead, walk away and count from one to ten, or just laugh it off. You feel better in a minute and ready to face the peas.

MY KIND OF FRIENDS

goyz — Mon, 20 May 2013 01:35:17 +0000

One of the perks of having a friend within the same circle is you know what to get them on their birthday, just like I am getting my friend voodoo labs from musicians friend for his birthday on Sunday. Yeah, all my friends are a musician not collectively though but we all are into music. I guess I am just lucky enough to have gathered friends that share the same interest and passion about music. Sure there is some downside to it but the upsides really outnumbered it. It is one the things that I am very grateful for in my life, I am surrounded by people whom like me, likes music.

HOW TO HAVE A CLOSER RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR PARENTS

goyz — Sat, 18 May 2013 06:02:32 +0000

Bond of mother and child is one of unconditional love, but compare to other relationship the mother-child one can become strained or distant because of past events, lifestyle choices and unavoidable factor like distance. However, there are some things you do to help closer relationship with your mother. They can be done at the appropriate pace for your relationship, take your time and work to build the close bond that you are seeking.

QUALITY TIME – spend quality time with your mother is you live in the same area to build and keep closer your relationship.

CLEARLY COMMUNICATION – as you age, your relationship with you mother will inevitably change, the mother who once made your breakfast and did your laundry takes different role in your life, one that is more like a friend and confidant than caretaker.

ASK QUESTIONS – it can be hard for a children to truly understand that their mother are people just like them, it make sense, because your whole life your mother took care of you and went out of her way to make you feel better without trying to burden you with her problems.

ACCEPT THE FLAWS – everybody has some flaws in their personality, you and your mother and everyone else in the world. It is entirely possible that your mother does things that bother you and seem unnecessary.

YOGA GIFTS

goyz — Tue, 07 May 2013 02:21:06 +0000

Since I will be attending a yoga class for the first time next month I am all excited about anything that has something to do with it including these gifts for yoga lovers that I have found over the internet. It is too early to categorize myself as a yoga lover but I really feel that I will be. So I am already excited to know that there is shop like this that specializes on yoga stuff that yoga lovers like. Hopefully I find friends on my yoga class and maybe give them something from this shop. That would be amazing.

WORRIED ABOUT PERFECT PARENTS

goyz — Mon, 06 May 2013 03:00:19 +0000

All of us not perfect, then letting your children know that you are also a human, you’re teaching them to forgive, as you forgive them. Our children sometimes tell us if they are truly loved, it’s not measured by how many hours are spent with them or if you were tired that day and lost your cool. Children measured only by how much money you can spend on them.

Although children already know that you are not perfect. Also they know how much you love them, you can’t fool a child, they are spirit like you and I. They are the most honest people on the earth. Believe me, they are honest and will forgive your mistakes, please forgive yourself. No one of us has ever been a perfect parent, not ever. If you love yourself, then you forgive yourself.

Remember this poet wrote by Irish Playwright:

“To love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance.”

So if you love yourself, then forgive yourself, which is another lesson your child will pick up from you, it’s win, win the situation! So be cool and relax, bask in the fullness of your reciprocal love with your child.

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BE A MOTHER NOT A FRIEND

goyz — Mon, 29 Apr 2013 05:00:10 +0000

Even if you and your daughter are thick as thieves and comfortable sharing things, there is a line between mother and friend. Do not cross it. This young woman who lives under your roof may seem like a built in confidante and wardrobe buddy, but she is your kids. Do not buy her beer of keep loose rules to feel like a cool mom, do not share bathing suits or skinny jeans with her and do not unload your marital problems on her. When your child realizes you have crossed the mom and friend line, she might come to resent you for not maintaining the boundaries most of her friends enjoy with their parents. Plus maintaining clear roles as mother and daughter will make your empty nesting and her transition to college or the real world more bearable.